Nau mai ki te Ms. Wai s tohutohu column. Te ao o te Uru nga wahine teití Hainamana te tangata e taea te wehe, ki te whakama, pōhēhētanga me mau fifi. Ko Ms. Wai kua ua hipokina koe. Ki te whai koe i te pātai ranei me etahi tika-ake kotiro kōrero, Ms. Wai ko konei hoki koutou ki te auau tohutohu column. Tena, unga tetahi pātai ki te email protected. Hey Luckless, ahau ve kua reira, ite e ahau yam. Kotahi te po pau ahau i te haora kanikani i roto i te aronga whānui, ka kanikani a tawhio noa, he super-wera taata. Ahau te pupuri i te ngana ki te e kanapa ana toku ataata, te hopu i tona kanohi pea te tango i te whati, me te tīmata i te aparauraa. Engari kahore tupu. Ahakoa ko ia tino mōhio o toku oraraa, me te kanikani, e tata ana ahau ki tona tinana, ko ia rawa mamahu ki te hanga kanohi whakapā. He i te wahine ke te ngana ana ki te rā i roto i te China e taea e te matekiri amanaki. Te katoa o te»moemoea»o nga wahine ke tukino i a matou i roto i te scene dating. Aua pakiwaitara.»Ke te wahine rā anake te taonga eé.»Ki nga wahine ke, he pakeke ki te makona.»Ke te wahine anake rite ke te tangata.»He wahine ke e kore e te rā i ahau, i te Hainamana noa taata.»Kua rongo ahau katoa o enei, i roto i ētahi atu, i rave rahi mau taime i mua i te. I mua, a, no ka korerotia e ahau i toku ngā ākonga ahau i te teití, te taata e mahi i waho o to tatou kura, ko ahau e kore e mea nei, ka rekoata i haere ratou ki te tango i toku pikitia, me te haere a tawhio noa, i te taonga ki te toa ki toku pikitia, me te ui i te tōku,»Ko tēnei tou kaumeá.No te mea kei koe te tangata iwi ke. E kore koutou hiahia rā noa i te kaimahi,»ka mea ratou rite ki ahau i te pōrangi e kore hoki e mohio i taua. (Ngahau ki runga ki a ratou, ko ia he papaku kaikuti makawe.) Na, i roto i tua atu ki te ahurea me te reo raruraru, to tatou i te tirohanga raruraru. He uaua ratou tauārai ki te haere, engari e kore e wehi, Aunty Wai te mea i konei ki te āwhina ia koe. He kotahi te mea, a kotahi te mea anake e nehenehe e tauturu ia tango to koutou dating kēmu ki te taumata muri. Ko te tino tenei te māmā, me te nuinga o te ara tika ki te rave i te reira, me te tino noa ara ki toku angitu. Apps hoatu eé i te haere noa ki te whakatata koe ki te muna ki te tiaki i to ratou whakakake. Ano hoki e koe te tīmata i te kōrero i roto i te pato, na i runga i tō Chinese pūkenga reo me to ratou ingarihi ngā pūkenga, ratou, koutou ranei, e taea te whakamahi i to koutou waea s dictionary ki te kōrero māmā. Na, ano he Westerner i runga i tetahi o te taupānga Hainamana, ka whiwhi koe i te rota o te aro. E i roto i te iho ko te mau huru whakanui. Te whānautanga ko te Hainamana Korakora (ingarihi putanga e wātea ana). Te reira i te swipe app, i mahue mo te kore, tika mō te ae, me te ohie (me te pāpaku) i rite taea. Ka taea e kite koe i te kōtaha iti, tae atu e rave rahi ngā pikitia (ki te tāpiri i te reira), to ratou i tawhiti i roto i te pā ana ki a koutou (i roto i te kiromita, e kore tūturu wāhitau tetahi mea ranei), me te ko te wa whakamutunga i ratou i runga i te taupānga. Ki te koe e rua»rite»te tahi i te tahi, voila. Ka taea e koe te tīmata i te kōrerorero. Just kia wawe. I te kotiro ahu ki PS ratou ngā pikitia i ki te titiro pai, eé ahu ki te whakamahi i pakeke pikitia o ratou. Kia mohio ki te ui ia ratou i te tuatahi ki o ratou pikitia, ko a ratou (ae, te whakamahi i fake ngā pikitia ko noa, rawa), me te ka ui ki te he e ratou tata pics. A ti’aturi i ahau i runga i tenei tetahi, kids. I roto i te whānui, ka whakatau i te he ki te taata mo te wa tuatahi, ka he iti iti te makawe, me te tahi atu kita me te pauna i i tona kōtaha pikitia. Ko te Momo atu o te»classic»taupānga dating i tēnei wā, me te ko tetahi o te tuatahi o nga hunga nui. Momo tonu te nui, me te tetahi o te torutoru Chinese taupānga kamupene e rārangi i runga i te NYSE, ahakoa mo etahi take ratou i poua i roto i to ratou ingarihi putanga o te taupānga, te tau i mua, na, pai mohiotia taketake Hainamana ki te whakamahi i tenei. Mea atu tuku iho, kahore swiping ae ranei kahore, engari tonu te paerewa me ngā pikitia kōtaha mea. Momo kua i te tāpiri i ngā āhuatanga mo te ia, me te mea e ngana ana ki te riro atu o te taupānga pāpāho pāpori atu i te tika te taupānga dating. Te whai ratou i te rōpū, ka taea e koe te whakauru ki te whakatau i te iwi, me te tata ahau i rongo e ratou te whakahere live streaming (ahakoa kahore ahau e kore e whakamahia e te āhuatanga). E rave rahi milioni i runga i tēnei taupānga, na e kore e rere i roto i te kōwhiringa. (Ahakoa whakaaro ahau i tčnei wā, nui atu te iwi i rua tuku, te whakamahi i rua i te Momo, me te Tanta i ia te wā.) WeChat Ae, ara to koutou aroha WeChat taea e te tauturu ia koe i te tiki i whakatakotoria. Te whakamahi i tika te»i te iwi tata»mahi (ina koa, pai, ina e koe te haere vahi). Engari kia tupato ki tenei tetahi. I Tanta e whakaatu ki a koutou i te iwi i roto i te wāhi whānui (kotahi te taata e km atu, i muri mai ka km a, i te tuatoru ka km o etc.), WeChat tīmata te tata ki a koe, me haere āta i roto i. Na, ki te mea ko koe te kaiako college, me te ora i runga i te wānanga, e kore tenei te tikanga pai mo koutou. He rota o ngā ākonga ka kite koe i, pea noa i tou ake. Te hunga e tika e toru, engari e toru o te»big guns», na te whakamahi i tēnei mōhiohio ki te pai. Ka rite ki te Hauauru te wahine, e haere ana koe ki te whai ki te waiho i te moka atu i mua, i roto i te whānui, atu i te e koe ki te takatu hoki ki te kāinga. E mohio ana ahau, te reira tino i te taata e hanga i te tere matamua, engari i roto i te China, ka hiahia koe ki te waiho i te moka toa i roto i te hanga to koutou whakaaro mārama. Ahakoa, ki te he koe i runga i-te-tihi uatoko ai e koe te ngaro i te iti te ti’aturiraa-whaiaro, no te mea ite koe rite reira e kore te reciprocated. Te nuinga o te wā i te taata i te tino e kore whakaaro. Whakaaro ratou e koe, he motuhake butterfly, e kore e rite ki tika i te»noa»te taata rite a ratou, na e kore e ratou te tiki ake i tetahi tīwhiri e hoatu e koe ki a ratou. Te teití ao i roto i te China ehara i te e te wahi pai mō te tinihanga. Te whakamahi i to outou itoito. Ko te take anake ki te ī. g. Tanta ko te pūmanawa ki te reo arai, ko te mea kua oti te raruraru mo oku hoa, ara ki a te reira OK ki te kōrero, ka mau te hui i roto i te tangata te mea kua he iti rorirori mai ratou i te kore e taea te kōrero tino pai Toku tohutohu ki te whakatau i te kāinga e taea ki te tiki wāhi i roto i te non-expat porowhita, ki te haere ki ngā kaupapa me ngā mahi e kore e e whāia s āta. E ara taea e koe te whakatau te iwi ki te rite ngā pānga, ano ko koe, i runga i Tanta kia whai koe ki te haere i roto i te tino maha ha-ha. My Chinese hoa ka mau ahau ki te kai ukauka hui, ki tonu i te kāinga te hiahia i roto i rite te ara o te ora i ahau. E ko te wahi i ascenceur ahau i roto i ki te atawhai te titiro ki te tangata ake, ka tona WeChat, me te inaianei matou ve teiti hoki i runga i te tau. WeChat, kua tino hira ki to tatou hononga ahakoa i reira ko te ara anake mo tatou ki te kōrero, my Chinese tino ngote nei i nga wa

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