E ai ki te Haina Ataata Teití: he Tokomaha nga tangata e teiti Chinese girls ipurangi, me te whakamahere ki te whai i te Hainamana wahine i te hoê mahana i tenei e manukanuka ki te whiwhi ratou moe, ki te he Chinese wahine, e ia kia hiahia anake i roto i mahue i a ia te whenua ranei whakarei ake i a ia te mana ōhanga. E kore koe e kua tae mai te tuawhenua i roto i te China, i te aroaro o, a kia kore kua tuhia tetahi Chinese wahine. Ko te kupu, i reira e etahi mea e hiahia ana koe ki te mohio ki te mea kei te whakaaro koe o te pehea, ki te tiki i te Hainamana Kotiro ki te rite koe ranei e kua teiti he wahine Hainamana. Ko te mea nui kia mohio koutou e pā ana ki Hainamana kotiro, i te mea e kore ratou e whakapuaki ia ratou i te taua rite te mea koutou e pea whakamahia ki te ki te Pākehā ranei American girls. I tua atu, maha ngā nga tohu, i ngā tohu kia tangohia e koe ki te tikanga i taua i te kotiro he tūturu te mau mana’o e noa i te ahurea mannerism e hāngai ana ki runga ki te tauira whanonga e a hare i roto i a ratou i roto i to ratou tīmatanga o te tau. Ko hono mo’oní, Hainamana wahine e whakaako ki te whakahaere ia ratou i roto i te tikanga motuhake i roto i te tikanga ki te kitea te pai te hoa ora. A, no te ratou tae i te pakeketanga, enei whanonga kua meinga e vaiiho i roto i to ratou roro, me te mea e kore ratou e tino mohio ana e ratou te whanonga e ara. Ko tētahi atu mea nui e hiahia ana koe ki te mohio kei e i roto i te ahurea Chinese, te iwi e taea te tiki faaipoipo, kahore te mau i te riroraa i roto i te aroha. Otiia, e kore e pehi ai koe no te mea i reira e rave rahi milioni o te Hainamana kotiro i roto i reira te hunga kei te here, e manaaki ana, tūturu, me te o te akoranga tino ataahua, me te sexy.

Hei tauira, ki te te tangata e te tahi mau here e nga mea mo koutou, ka taea e te reira te mea e, e takitahi, he pono taku e aroha ana koe. Na me pehea ka taea e koe te korero ki te he Chinese kotiro ko te mau i roto i te aroha ki a koutou. A, no te he Chinese kotiro parau koutou e ia e mahara ana hoki koutou, e ranei ia ui ia koutou, ko reira te tahi mea e kia tangohia tino fakamātoato. Puaki te kupu»ko ahau i roto i te aroha ki a koutou»kia a hona i roto i ētahi atu ahurea, heoi i roto i te China, i reira ko te rite ki te mea»mahi ahau»i roto i te hononga. Tou Chinese kaumeá ka tata tino pehi i mea ai i tenei ra ano, ko ia te tino etahi e ia te tikanga o nga kupu. Ki te taua i roto i te ngakau, e taea e tetahi te humarie mea e to koutou hononga e taea anake te tiki i kaha i konei i runga i te i roto i te. Na e matau ana koutou he ia ki a koe, ka taea e koe te tupukoso ki a ia, me ia e ua koe ki te aroha te whakaaro e koe e taea. Kotahi te atu mea e taea e whakaatu e to koutou Chinese kotiro, kua hohonu iho i noa te mau mana’o no te koe, ko te ka tīmata ia i te āwangawanga e pā ana ki te hauora o koutou. Chinese culture te titau nei i te wahine (inā koa te wahine) ki te whakaatu i te tahi mau āwangawanga mo tana tane, o te hauora. He maha ataahua Chinese wahine ano hoki te whakamahi i tēnei tikanga ki te hoatu te tangata he tohu e ko ia hiahia i roto i a ia. Na reira, ki te tika koe e tīmata i roto i i roto i to koutou hononga, me te whakaatu e ia te māharahara i runga i te hauora koutou, ka ai ia e ngana ana ki te korero ki a koutou e ia i te tino pai koe.

Ko tētahi atu tohu nui e kua e ia he mea mo koutou

Ki te ui ia e koe ki te whakatau i ōna mātua, ka taea e te reira anake te tikanga e hiahia ana ia ia ratou ki te tirohia koutou i roto i, me te hoatu i to ratou whakaaetanga. Ko ia i roto i te pānga e korero ana ia te mau metua»i Konei, ko te tangata e aroha ana ahau ki, he aha te koutou whakaaro e pā ana ki a ia.»Me whai whakaaro koe ia koe waimarie ki te mea ia ia kua korero ki ōna mātua e pā ana ki koutou, me te hiahia koe ki te whakatau i a ratou.

Ka taea e koe te kia mohio, e to koutou Chinese kotiro e aroha ana koe i te hohonu

Victoria Taitamariki, ko te wahine Hainamana nei blogs e pā ana ki teití Chinese wahine, me pehea ki te mahi ki intercultural rerekētanga i roto i te Hainamana-Western hononga. A, no te e teiti koe he Chinese kotiro, me te rua o a koutou e te tino kaha i runga i te pāpāho pāpori, ko te mātau ki te kore te hiahia koe sexy Russian kohungahunga, ki te whaia koe i roto i te mata ranei noa mutu te aufauraa i te whakarongo ki o koutou karere mo te hunga e rapu ana i te Latin kotiro hoki rā, kei tatou i konei ki te tūtohu Lata rā.

Lata rā Arotake āwhina koe pai ki te mohio i tenei pae, me o nga ratonga tuku reira

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