whakaaro ia koutou anō te kamupene e pā ana ki te hononga, me te kawe e koe e rua e te teití, me te tango koe ki te kite i ia te mau metua rite ia taumau. Tenei tauari, ko te tino pea ki te i matou ki te whakapono koe, e koe e kua mārama te kōrero ki a ia e kore e koe i te teití, me tenei e kore te mea he hononga whaiāipo, rite i roto i te mea i roto i te mārama Chinese kupu ki tona mata e kore ahau teiti koe, a e kore e matou i roto i te hononga, te Whakaaro i tona pa te kāinga ko te iti pa (na roto i te iti te tikanga e ahau e kore e Beijing, Shanghai, Guangzhou, Chongqing), ko ia te nuinga pea i raro i te rota o te pēhanga ki te tiki faaipoipo. A, ki te kahore ia t e hiahia ana ki te tiki ki te hononga tika i teie nei, ka kia te whakamahi i to koutou toronga ki te whakamarie i a ia ngā mātua nagging. Ia ani manihini koe ki a ia ki te kāinga ki te hoatu ki a ratou i te mana’o e, ia s teiti te tangata i waho, e pai tika o te tangata taitama, he nui te heke mai. Na, ko ōna mātua kia waiho ia anake, mo te ia. Ia e kore e taea e tika i roto i te korero ki a koutou e te whakamahi i ia ki te mahi rite ki tona hoa, te tangata e matau ana, ai e koe te tango i te reira i te ara he, me te hiahia mau koe ki te whai i te hononga ranei, te tiki i he hoki te rāwekeweke. (engari, hoatu noa he moka whakamārama, te utu i nga tangata taitamariki ki te mahi rite ki to ratou hoa tamaroa i roto i te mua o to ratou ngā mātua, ko te mau i te ratonga whakaekea i roto i China. E kore au e mōhio ki te kotiro i mau te whakamahi i te hoa mō te utu, engari au e ahau tino mohio ki etahi kotiro e teka ki to ratou mau metua e pā ana ki o ratou hoa tane na te mau metua e mutu te tohetohe a ratou e pā ana ki te whiwhi i moe), te hinaaro ia ki te ani i ona hoa ki tona whare, ki te kahore koutou anō white (ranei kore-Hainamana), ka hiahia pea koe ki te whakaatu atu, kia rite ki te pai hoa i ia i roto i te pa nui, i ia tika e hiahia ana ki te whakaatu ki a koe i te wa pai ki a ia utuafare, pea ōna mātua he nui keke. Ka taea e te reira te tino māmā hoa tina ki te whānau, me te kahore atu. I roto i to tatou tikanga, te tango i te hoa kaumeá ki te whakatau i to tatou mau metua, ko te mea tino nui. Ko te tikanga e hiahia ana matou ki te mōhio i to tatou mau metua e nehenehe e farii i koe taku tane te wahine. Na, tou kaumeá ko te tino, me te ia aroha koutou. Ki te kore koe e hiahia ana ki te farii i te reira. KOA. Korero ki a ia, te korero ki a ia i te trues ka mutu te tākaro i te rangirua! Ko ia te whakauru i a koe ki tona whaea, ka rite ki tona hoa, ranei, ano he hoa? Ki te ona s mua, ae, e ko pea te nui. Engari, kua tamata koe te tono i tona? E e hoatu e koe he nui ake te tika te whakautu atu i te tahi tangata ke i runga i te Ataata te Teití. I tō whakaahuatanga, ko reira tino mārama e rua o te tika tīmata koe i tou hononga, me e ko te ara rawa hohoro hoki te Hainamana kotiro ki te whakangahau i te whakaaro o te faaipoiporaa. Ano, nga mea e huri i te wiri tere i roto i te China. Tina ki ngā mātua, ko te kore e te taumata i roto i te whanaungatanga rite whakamahia te reira ki te waiho i te (pea i roto i te tahi wāhi tuawhenua, engari e kore e tino i roto i te pa, rawa, ki te ke hoa). He aha kia haere i runga i roto i te kotiro s mahunga kei te tino hipokina e Feiffer Wang na e kore ahau e haere ana ki te faahiti faahou. Heoi, ki te tango koe i aku tohutohu na e hiahia ana ahau ki te korero ki a koutou ake. Te reira i taea e te tuke ki te kai ki te iwi e kore nei t korero i tō reo. Na, ka kite koe i te kotiro s i te mau metua ataata fele wa katoa e koe te korero. Korero ana i roto i te wheako, i reira i taea e te kino tina i roto i to outou oraraa na.

Ko ahau he Hainamana, ki te ui ia koe ki te whai i te tina i tona whare ki a ia ngā mātua e rua, e te tikanga ko ia whakaaro e pā ana ki te marena koe. Ki te he te reira tika he tina ki tona whaea, pea ko reira tika tona whaea e hiahia ana ki te kite i te aha te huru o te tangata e koe, me te tiaki i tana tamahine i te pae i ahatia. Heoi, te nuinga Chinese kotiro tino nui e pā ana ki teití. Ehara i te mea ngāwari ki te ui ki a ratou i roto i. A kia whakaae ia ki te whakairi i roto i ki te koutou mo te tina ranei e matakitaki ana i te kiriata mō te neke atu i te tahi taime, ko reira tino pea e kei te tango ia i a koe ka rite ki tana hoa.

O te akoranga

Ki te to koutou hoa kōhine ani manihini koe ki te whakatau i ōna mātua, e te tikanga e hiahia ana ia ki te whakauru tona hoa, ki tona mātua ōkawa, me ia ano hoki e hiahia ana ki ona matua hoatu ki a koutou he aronga pai. Ko reira ano he tohu e ko koe te tangata ia i te mea pai ki te marena i roto i te heke mai. Ki te hiahia koe ki te hanga i te hononga atu ki a ia, whakaaro ahau ki a koutou te kawe mai te tahi mau hakari hoki tana i te mau metua. Well, ki tonu koe i feaa e pā ana ki te hononga, whakaaro ahau ki a koutou korero ki a ia e ko te reira e kore e tonu te wa ki te kite i ōna mātua

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