I te Titiro i te Ahurea Chinese, me te Teití Lovelorn

He mea nui ko tetahi o te whai wāhi o te te utuafare

Hainamana teití ko te tika ka rite ki te puputu'u, me te whakamiharo, rite te tetahi atu momo o te teití

Mō te Pākehā, e te hinaaro ki te ako e pā ana ki te ahurea Hainamana taea e hanga i te interracial ranei o te ao hononga kaha.

Hoki Chinese iwi te hunga e hiahia ana ki te whakatau i ētahi atu i te kotahi iwi papamuri, pae teití Ipurangi e taea e te tauturu. Rite ki tetahi tikanga, e kore e katoa i China hea te taua whakapono. Tonu, i reira e te tahi mau ngā waiaro e pā ana ki teití e noa i roto i te Hainamana. I roto i te United States, a matou e whakamahia ki te whakaaro e tatou te hanga i to tatou iho mau ma'itiraa e pā ana ki te nei e matou, te rā, me te e matou ki te marena. Otiia i roto i te Hainamana tuku iho mau utuafare, te mau metua ai e mahara ki te whai i te mea. Ngā take e maha puta ngā: e herea Koe ki te tiki ki te raruraru, ki te amo koe i e te mo te katoa Hainamana, te teití ko te taua. Ka whakatau ia koe i te iwi te hunga i whanau i roto i te United States, me te kore noho i roto i te China, engari e whai tonu i ngā ahurea Chinese. Ka kitea e hoki koutou te iwi nei neke atu i konei rite te pakeke engari, he tino whakamarie ki te American-kāhua teití. A, o te akoranga, ka kitea e koe nga mea katoa i roto i waenganui i rite ki te pai. He aha e te tikanga, ko e reira e kore tino tetahi mea pēnei i te 'Chinese teití. 'Rite ki tetahi ngā āhuatanga teití, te reira e pā ana ki te whiwhi ki te mohio ki te tau tangata, i to ratou outlook i runga i te ora, me ō rātou ngākau nuitanga whaiaro, te tūmanako, me te moe.

He maha Chinese-American wahine e hara i tenei whakaaro

Ki te koe hiahia i roto i te hui iwi o te Hainamana he whakamārama, he maha ngā kōwhiringa. Te iwi nei i ora i roto i te ethnically kanorau pa, ka whai te maha tūponotanga ki te te whakatau me te kōrero ki te iwi te hunga e Chinese Hainamana ranei-American.

Ki te ora ia koutou i roto i te hapori te wahi i reira e kore e maha Āhia e noho ana, i te Ipurangi e taea e te tauturu.

Piki, te teití pae tukutuku whakahere tūponotanga mō Chinese teití.

E toru ngā momo matua o te Hainamana teití pae: he Tokomaha nga tangata o Amerika e rawa ngā ki te wahine Āhia.

Otiia he tokomaha te Hainamana-American wahine faaite i te taua amuamu e pā ana ki te tangata e he hiahia i roto i te teiti ratou. Ratou e ngenge o te tukinotia rite 'China tare,' rānei ki te stereotype e e 'tāwāhi,' me te o te meka e te tahi tangata, mea atu te hiahia i roto i to ratou titiro atu i to ratou feruriraa. He hoki, he noa ariā e Chinese wahine e talangofua ranei subservient. E kore te ki te mea e he tangata e rapu ana koutou mo te tāwāhi, engari kia ngohengohe helpmate e kore e taea e kitea i te aroha ki te wahine Hainamana, tika e te mea ohie ki te he, ki te tukua e koe i te mau mana'o hape guide to koutou dating whakamātau.