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Na, we’ve whiwhi i te tahi mau uiraa hou e pā ana ki teití i roto i te China. Te reira i te ngā kaupapa e patua i runga i te rota o te matua ahurea touchpoints, na e hiahia ana ahau ki te tango i te meneti torutoru ki te kōrero e pā ana ki tenei. Ka maha rongo te iwi mea e, te ahurea rerekētanga e whakamaihi te reira e kore e ranei rite ki te nui o te take, rite whakamahia ratou ki te hei, me ahakoa i reira ko te tahi mau tika ki te e, te ahurea rerekētanga e kahore ki te whakahi i — ratou e te nuinga o te tino e te tīariari. Ko tētahi o te take tuatahi i konei ko e hoki Chinese wahine, i reira te mea he nui te kaha te aronga i runga i te pae faaipoipo wawe. Tenei haere hoki ki te iti pūmau te tahi taime, no te faaipoiporaa e auraa nui-hiahiatia ana te haumarutanga, engari o te akoranga ko e kore te tikanga o te pono Chinese āhuatanga: i roto I, Na te wahine i moea e te tau, engari te ara hoki i roto i, neke atu i te kua whakanohoia ana e. Ko haina āhua hou ki te katoa hou-eu-globalized-ipurangi (tonu te mahi i runga i taua tetahi whakamutunga, tino) whenua, mea, a, i tou tikanga ki runga, ki te tau i roto i te hanga, te peu tawhito mate uaua. Te whakaaro, rawa, ki te whakatupuranga take i te te tākaro i konei: ko Te wahine ataahua koe ki te kua te kuru i kahore o ngā mātua me ōna tūpuna e te hunga i te faaohiparaa i taua pēhanga ki te tiki faaipoipo, ahakoa ia ia kia kore e ite e ia te rite hiahia ranei. E no te mea tūpuna’, me te pea (i runga i te wahi i roto i te China ia i) ōna mātua tonu te uara faaipoiporaa pūmautanga runga ake te katoa atu i roto i to ratou wa, homai te tapepe me te pähekeheke o to ratou wā. I roto i te meka, kotahi i tuhia i ahau i te kotiro nei aue, e te anake te whakatau ia ki runga, i te wahi e ōna mātua, ME te kuia i whakaaetia-mua rite taea e koe whakaaro tetahi o enei wahi tino ngahau. Koutou wahine o te whakatupuranga kia pai kia te tuatahi ki te whai e tau’atāina o te whaiāipo kōwhiringa, me e te tahi mea e hiahia ana koe ki te pupuri i roto i te ngakau, i te hanga to koutou whakatau mo to koutou hononga — i reira e kore te noa te ton o te ahurea muri ia ia ki te hinga hoki ki runga ki. Whakaaro e pā ana ki reira: a, no te whakaaro koe he aha ki te mahi i roto i ngā o te whanaungatanga, e kore e koe te whakamahi i o koutou matua i’ ki te faaipoiporaa, me ngā hononga ranei, ano he wāhi tohutoro. Ki te to outou mau metua, me te tahi atu melo o te utuafare faaipoipo i roto i te haratau, nui atu i romance, e kore te mea he rota ki te āwhina ki te ārahi i a koutou, no te ngana ana ki te kitea te aroha hoa tino koe pāwhiritia ki. Te kotiro kotahi whakahuatia e ahau i mua i — tona mātua’ ki te faaipoiporaa whakaritea e ia te matua o te āpiha whakahaere i roto i te hōia, me te hiahia ahau te tahi taime te ui ki a ia, kei te tino whakaaro koe kia koe te tango i te tohutohu dating i te iwi te hunga e kore kua tuhia. He aha tenei maha arata’i ki, ko te taimaha mātua whai wāhi i roto i te whanaungatanga, me te teití. Kia whai koe te pānui e pā ana ki te paku-fakailifia faaipoiporaa e te hokohoko i roto i te China, i roto i nei e ngā mātua te whakaturia ake nga tepu pānuitanga to ratou pakeke ana tama me ana tamahine ki te pūmanawa hoa. Ahakoa tenei e kore e tino te ara tino Chinese whakatau i to ratou heke mai hoa faaipoipo i muri iho, te faaipoiporaa hokohoko tonu te tika noa aroaro, ara i roto i te ake Westernized pa i rite Shanghai. I te wā i roto i te te hau-ā-Uru ai tatou tamata ki te tākaro i te reira matao, me te kore e i roto i te whakapā tamau ki te tangata, i roto i China te reira noa ki te kuputuhi ranei karanga i nga wa maha i te ra, ara, ki te hononga e kore e noa mamao i nui ano. Tenei ngā ahurea rerekētanga, ko te, i roto i toku wheako, he take nui i na maha intercultural ngā hononga te kore e mohio ana ahau tetahi kotiro tutaki ahau texted ahau, e rima nga wa i mua i te tina, i te ra i muri mai — he nui, kahore-kahore hoki ki ahau engari ko te paerewa tikanga hoki ia. Te tangata ko te tikanga mahara ki te hapai i te katoa whakatau i te hanga i roto i te Hainamana teití, me etahi kotiro ki te tango i tenei rawa fakamātoato. Kia ui ahau te kotiro he aha hiahia ia ki te mahi mo te rā me te ia tika e kore e pahono. Mea ano hoki i kitea ki te kawe mai i te hoa haere, engari e kore e hoki te mea he rua rā — te reira i atu rite ki te chaperon, buffer ranei kupenga haumaru. Heoi, i te katoa o te tikanga o tēnei e i roto i te China ano, ki te teiti koe te tangata tino, te faaipoiporaa i te iti rawa i runga i te tepu. Ahakoa, ki te mea e kore e te taua i te mahi nui ki a ia fakatāutaha, te reira tonu te tahi mea e te i runga i a ia te ngakau, me e ia te mau metua e te mau mai i ake te tika e pā ana ki nga wa i kite ratou i a ia. Ka rite ki te hua, ki te tupu i mua i te faaipoiporaa ko te rota iti noa i roto i te China, i roto i te te hau-ā-Uru, ahakoa ko tenei e kore e nui na ko te take i muri i roto i te muri, nui atu taone Hainamana. Te vai, ahakoa, ki te kahore koutou e piri i te wā dating, i reira ko te kaha o te whakaaro e te faaipoiporaa i runga i te pae. Ahakoa ko enei ture e te tahi mau taime e māhorahora ana hoki Chinese teití tangata ke, e kore e tonu te take. No te tangata, te mea whānui, e kore e rite ki tino: e kore te toko faaipoiporaa-te paunga-te rā-te countdown (aka te nui-tuhia te»i te toe’a o te wahine»- āhuatanga, me te utuafare i te pēhanga e whangai ana ki te waiho i te moka mama atu i te reira mo a ratou wahine ritenga. E mea, te tahi atu taumahatanga e te tīariari. Kua korero matou i te aroaro o e pā ana ki etahi o te moni i ngā whakaritenga o te tangata, te maha me te whakatutuki i ki te taau mo te pai, te mate: i te whare, motokā me te on a hopa kei te de märena whakaritenga mo te teití i roto i te maha porowhita, me te ki te ira tāne o te tahi miriona anō te tangata, te wahine maha e taea e tona ringa ki te kia filifili. I ahau i te hoa wahine nei, a, no te i runga i te rā ki te Hainamana taata, whakahuatia e ia, kihai rawa āwangawanga e pā ana ki ranei e ia te whenua i te motokā e kore e ranei. Ia rā mooni e kore e taea e whakapono ki ana i te waimarie me te tonu tamata ki te whakaturia ake te wa mo tetahi atu rā. Hui katoa, ko te ahurea te aronga i runga i te marena i te atatu, inā koa hoki nga wahine, te tikanga e te teití ko te ngaronga o te iwi ki te rota atu te tikanga, me te kore e te tahi mea ki te tangohia e whakahawea ana. Na e matau ana koutou he iti e pā ana ki teití i te ahurea i roto i te China, tango i te titiro i te aha te iwi Hainamana ki te mea e pā ana ki to ratou pai hoa aroha. I teie haapiiraa i Yoyo Hainamana o te Takawaenga ngā āhuatanga Akoranga uiui ki te iwi i runga i nga ara o China. I muri i enei poto interviews, Yang yang wawahi iho te nui o te reo ngā i kitea i roto i to ratou mau pahonoraa. MICHAEL HURWITZ pau te ono tau i roto i te Shanghai te mahi i te mea iti ki te āwhina ki te whakawhiti i te ahurea me te te reo āputa i waenganui i Haina me te te hau-ā-Uru. Inaianei hoki i roto i te United States te ako i te mahi, me te Hainamana, Michael pai reggae waiata, i tona kainga kapa poitūkohu i te Washington Maori, me te he kutanga o te moko hiahia ia, kaua e whakamārama. Te momo reo i ngā tau i muri i ia pinyin wāhanga ka pāwhiri i te pātene faafariuhia ki te huri i a ratou i roto i te reo tohu

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